As social media has been full of gushy, over the top valentines day status's and such like.
I thought I would do a little anti valentines day post.
Surely a girl/guy should be able to show the person they love them in the same way as you do on Valentines Day. I don't get why everyone gets so wrapped up in Valentines Day. Yes I am currently taken, but I also pretty much got my other half a joke card as a gift. I'm not cynical or into romance for that matter.
Yes I like the feeling of being in love, but I also love the freedom, that everyday is a new page to write on and make memories.
Why should love be constricted to one day a year. Surely if you love someone unconditionally, then you prove that to them everyday? If you wanna buy your other half flowers for no reason then do so. It shouldn't be confined to February 14th. I spent the most of the day with my other half and my nephew, we had lunch and watched kids films. He then left so he could do a gig with his band.
I spent the evening with my family of boys and even got the midnight cuddles from my nephew. I got a chocolate heart and a card from my nephew. Lets be honest, why would I ever need any other boy to love me as long as he does. His love his is the purest of love that you could get from anyone. It also goes to show, that you do not need a boyfriend or girlfriend to show you the best kind of love.
So don't beat yourself up if you didn't get any presents or cards yesterday, they are just things that the heart doesn't need or necessarily want. As long as you have the love from someone, whether it be a cat, dog, family, friends or spouse. All you need to know is there is someone in the world that loves you each and everyday and doesn't need Valentines Day to prove it.
Love
M
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